We (humans) are ideally not ideal

I am just jotting down my ideas on this piece. I am not sure of the structure and may be i may deviate from the theme mentioned.

I feel humans are not so ideal, rather not rational the way we are defined are at least "supposed" to be. I put forth the following thoughts to contemplate

1. Every human has her/his own realm of thought. And, surprisingly no one ever realizes about this. Also, we are so deep into our realm that all other realms of thought seem ridiculous and stupid.
2. We lack empathy. This is very tricky, we sometimes act that we "understand" things. But, the unfortunate thing is that we understand things the way we want to understand. The way we are conditioned to understand.
3. We do not honestly seek feedback. In one way we are not honest to ourselves. One thing that strikes me a lot is every body seems to be so interested in "NOT KNOWING" about us that we are totally blind to our wrong doings.
4. We are so indulgent or addicted to avoid being rational and just live the moment in utter irrationality. This addiction clouds our rationale and closes the two-way communication process.
5. The most funniest (intentional grammatical error to emphasize) thing is that we not only expect but also think that the world is an ideal place and all humans should and must behave ideally. Ironically, this applies only to others not to self, because we define what is "ideal" and the problem is this "idealness" varies with each one of us.

I will append this list as I evolve day-by-day. feel free to comment and help me add. Hopefully, this will help me to discover myself.